tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33192339.post1327650419168052622..comments2024-01-11T05:32:46.245-05:00Comments on Jill, The WARRIOR: Love and attachment (according to Jill)Mamapiercehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08313103546500488010noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33192339.post-71723277207960592682013-01-20T23:19:36.471-05:002013-01-20T23:19:36.471-05:00Jill - I agree wtih anonymous above. Kudos to you...Jill - I agree wtih anonymous above. Kudos to you. I have a newly adopted older child and it takes work. I love both my kids - but the newest is hard with all her issues. I love reading your blog for how real you are. Thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33192339.post-66252278671257430772013-01-20T23:17:14.526-05:002013-01-20T23:17:14.526-05:00Jill, like many of your blog posts this one was ve...Jill, like many of your blog posts this one was very brave. So many mothers are afraid to admit that sometimes it just takes time to love your kids fully. Not because they did anything wrong, not because mom did anything wrong, but because parenthood is a hard job and some things just don't "click" right away. Different kids are easier than others and I think that makes our attachment to those kids stronger sooner. Being stressed out all the time makes it hard to bond with anything! I'm glad that you and Calvin got the time you both needed. <br /><br />It would be great to see wedding pictures of you! Maybe I missed them already on the blog somewhere? :) <br /><br />Thanks again for such an honest, heartfelt post. I hope one day women will be able to talk openly about this and get the support they need without judgement. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33192339.post-8058900609750860052013-01-20T21:22:39.593-05:002013-01-20T21:22:39.593-05:00I am the same way, Jill. It takes me a long time t...I am the same way, Jill. It takes me a long time to open my heart and truly love someone. Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13677010442934664757noreply@blogger.com